Learn Everything from Everyone in Everywhere at Every Time

I've ever told to make a posting, special for my new family in the other country. And now because I am really bored with all of my tasks, I think I should fill my bored time with another useful activity and I decide to continue my writing about this.

Oke, as I've ever posted I have stayed about a month in one Thai lecturer's house. She is a chemistry lecturer at one university in Lopburi, Thailand. The first time I met her, I knew she was very charming from her way in starting the first chat with me, and us as a stranger.

She has a husband who is a lecturer too in one of the best university in Thailand. I remembered that they were a couple since they studied in New Zealand and finally, they got married and now they have 2 cute daughters and the important thing the readers should know is, I really miss them a lot :(.

Almost 30 days I stayed with them, gave me so much valuable things that really can't buy it everywhere, about education, their story and sometimes we talked about life. As time goes by, I've started to observe the way their filled their life, I did my mini observation here besides my real research, 555. I took notice the way they managed their time in working, taking care their daughters, taking care their house, the way they refreshed their mind, the way they honored their parents. 

At one time, she should be a wife for her husband and also a mother for her daughters, then she is a lecturer from all of her students, she is a vice dean in her faculty and the best thing from her is, she still be the best daughter for his father. I often saw she visited her father in the temple (at that time, her father be a monk after his promise when she can get a scholarship again to study abroad).

Until a time that I was really impressed with her and I said to myself, can I be like her when that time is coming, I should split myself in one time into a wife who should be the best wife for a husband and really honored him as a man who will lead my life into the next step. As a mother who should be the best mother and give every little thing for the children to prepare them to pursue the best future. As a worker, and also still be the best daughter for my parents and in that day, his parents too. 

That's not to be imagined, but if that time comes, I should have done with all my own problems, and I should be ready to face everything that will come. One thing that I emphasize here is, we can learn everything from everyone in everywhere at every time. Just don't close our eyes and our heart that we should take everything that good for our life from our surrounding and selective to everything that not proper to our life. As long as that thing is suitable to our truth, we can take it to upgrade ourself to be the best human that we should be.


The one who misses every little thing there,

Feb.




Comments

Post a Comment

Popular posts from this blog

Ucapan adalah Doa: Pascasarjana ITB

Image
"Siap, nanti kamu lanjut kuliah di sana, aku di ITB ya!" Masih teringat jelas percakapan 2 insan di siang hari, yang entah bagaimana, ternyata sepertinya percakapan ringan tersebut terbawa oleh angin hingga sampai ke 'Arsy-Nya dan Sang Maha Mendengar pun mengabulkannya. Itulah mengapa, ucapan adalah doa, kan? Maka berucaplah yang baik-baik karena kita tidak pernah tau ucapan mana yang akan sampai ke 'Arsy-Nya. Idealis memang, mahasiswa S1 yang sudah memimpikan untuk melanjutkan kembali studinya ke jenjang yang lebih tinggi sejak memasuki tahun ke-dua kuliah. Tidak tanggung-tanggung, Jepang menjadi suatu mimpi yang tertempel di dinding, sebagai negara tujuan selanjutnya untuk kembali menimba ilmu. Saat itu, yang ada di benakku adalah selama mimpi masih gratis, kenapa tidak? Aku hanya bisa berusaha dan untuk hasilnya? Pasti sudah ada yang mengatur :D. Dibuat sejak tahun ke-dua masa kuliah S1 (bahkan masih ku simpan sampai hari ini) Waktu terus berjalan...
Read more

Dattebayo.

Image
Hai!! whoops, just realize that all my posts in here are so blue... :(  haha, iya maafin:" yang punya blog emang tukang galau, dulu tapi sekarang udah ngga kok :D Tapi untuk postingan kali ini dijamin ngga pake galau kokk, wkwk hmm, gimana ya, saat menunggu waktu masuk kuliah yang tinggal semingu lagi, aku kira aku akan bersantai ria di kos, tapi entah kenapa ternyata banyak hal yang harus aku kerjakan. Sampai dimana aku berada di titik jenuh dan tiba-tiba saja kepikiran mau buat postingan tentang suatu yang lagi aku suka sekarang, bahkan tiap aku buka salah satu akun medsosku pasti fanspagenya tidak terlewat aku kunjungi, melihat update-an terbaru tentang hal yang aku sukai ini. Ada yang tau apa??? Bukan boyband boyband korea kok, tenang aku bukan tipe yang suka begituan :" Bukan juga artis-artis luar, aku ngga punya artis yang aku suka banget gitu, sekedar lewat ajaa~ terus apa lagi? Pemain bola? NO! aku ngga ngerti bola, ngga suka juga nonton bola-_- Te...
Read more

What doesn't kill you, makes you stronger!

Image
Terlihat tanggal terakhir postingan di blog ini sudah begitu lama sekali. Hampir 2 tahun sudah tidak menuliskan banyak hal. Memang aku yakin tidak ada pembaca blog ini selain diriku sendiri, namun mengingat blog ini sudah menemani perjalananku sejak SMA, dan blog ini sudah ku anggap sebagai 'pendengar' curhatku yang paling setia, aku tidak akan membiarkannya kosong dalam waktu yang lebih lama lagi. Banyak hal yang sudah ku tulis, baik dipublish ataupun hanya sekedar ku simpan di draft, baik cerita sedih maupun bahagia. Menulis membuat ku dapat mengekspresikan hal yang tidak dapat ku ekspresikan dengan orang lain. Dengan menulis, walaupun tulisan yang hanya ala kadarnya, aku dapat melepaskan segala beban yang sedang menggantung. Memang seringnya tidak ada solusi dari menuliskan segala masalah dan pikiranku, namun ketenangan yang Ia berikan setelah menulis adalah tujuan utama ku. Banyak hal yang terjadi dalam dua tahun ini. Pandemi. Patah hati. Isoman. Tesis. Pengangguran. Jobse...
Read more